I have always been a firm believer in being a keeper for others, even though life is often a very individual journey.
Our lives are ours, yes. We are own people, we go about our days independently, fighting our own battles and demons, trying to mask whatever we are going through for the sake of those we hold dear to us.
Yet, I have realized that in life, even though people can hurt us, there is more harm than healing when you try to go through it alone.
We have all been, whether we know it or not, a keeper for someone else. Whether that person is a child that looks up to you, a child that is your own, an acquaintance in a coffee shop, a close friend, or a member of your family, there has been a time where someone has confided in you, has trusted you to see them and to love them. That trust is an honor, and it should not be taken lightly.
I have found myself in the position of a keeper multiple times, and every time has taught me an irreplaceable lesson about the world, and most importantly, about myself.
Though this, I have learned that sometimes you are meant to be someone’s keeper for a long time and sometimes you leave their life just as quickly as you enter it, but the few days, weeks, and months that you made an impact will stay with that person for longer than you know.
I have also learned that being a keeper has nothing to do with age. There have been times where people older than me have been my keepers. They have given me their valuable insight and wisdom that can only be obtained through life experience.
Yet, some of the most significant keepers in my life have been younger than me. I have been profoundly changed by the humor, kindness, and blind faith/love of multiple children, and for that I am so very blessed. Every child I have come in contact with has taught me something and even though not all of them have taken on the role of keeper, they are individuals I am proud to have known.
We have the opportunity to be a keeper on the daily. In the event we ask someone how their day is going or how their family is, we are giving them the opportunity to make us their keeper. Even when we do something as small as smiling at another person, we are giving them the opportunity to trust us, to let us into their lives.
Seek to be a keeper. We aren’t meant to go through this life and experience the complexities without an army by our side.